
My gold-hearted mom was doing some cleaning last week and came across this poem she has held on to. She passed it along to me and I in turn pass it along to you. Unfortunately it does not have an author listed. But how I need the wisdom it gives.
I gave you life, but I cannot live it for you.
I can teach you things, but I cannot make you learn.
I can give you directions, but I cannot be there to lead you.
I can allow you freedom, but I cannot account for it.
I can take you to church, but I cannot make you believe.
I can teach you right from wrong, but I cannot always decide for you.
I can buy you beautiful clothes, but I cannot make you beautiful inside.
I can offer you advice, but I cannot accept it from you.
I can give you love, but I cannot force it upon you.
I can teach you to share, but I cannot make you unselfish.
I can teach you respect, but I cannot force you to show honor.
I can advise you about friends, but I cannot choose them for you.
I can advise you about sex, but I cannot keep you pure.
I can tell you the facts of life, but I cannot build your reputation.
I can tell you about drink, but I cannot say "NO" for you,
I can warn you about drugs, but I cannot prevent your using them.
I can tell you about loft goals, but I cannot achieve them for you.
I can teach you about kindness, but I cannot force you to be gracious.
I can warn you about sins, but I cannot make your morals.
I can love you as a child, but I cannot place you in God's family.
I can pray for you, but I cannot make you walk with God.
I can teach you about Jesus, but I cannot make Jesus your Lord.
I can tell you how to live, but I cannot give you Eternal Life.
For all our teaching and training we cannot make our children accept our values. We can only live them out before them and pray they accept, cling to, follow the footsteps of the Master. Yet I look at were I fail in following His footsteps and pray His grace, His love covers my multitude of sins. That Jesus alone will fill in the gaps.
In Jesus,
Nancy